Wednesday, September 28, 2011

BUILD ALL YOUR ROADS ON TODAY....

.....Because.....
tomorrow's ground is
too uncertain for plans
and futures have a way of
falling down in mid-flight
After a while you learn
that even sunshine burns if you get too much

It's time for fall
whether we are ready or not
because LIFE never waits for us to be ready
we just have to be able to meet it
when it happens

I love this sunset down our road from a  week ago
(this is all our property)
so peaceful
so much beauty
such beautiful colors
MY ROAD


Makes me so thankful
there are many FALLS in our lives
whether it be the season, or changes in our own lives


For the very first time since I moved here, my Dad was able to come with my sister
and visit me
Of course I had to get a picture of him
with Mr. Gorgeous
and one of our horses

Dad just turned 82
He is reaching past the "fall period" of his life
his roads are changing
he needs to be ready to meet them
when I asked him "how do you feel about turning 82"
he said
"Well, at least I am still on the green side of the grass."



He, Me, and my sister and brother spent a week with my mother
who had to go into surgery for a stomach tumor
(still awaiting for tests of cancer?)

A hard time for sure


We spent a lot of time in this room
Waiting
worrying
dad
when people are in the hospital (as many of you must know)
they really don't necessarily feel like visiting
they just want to KNOW you are there....close by

reminds me of a lovely quote by Piglett to Winnie the Pooh
"Piglett sidled up to Pooh from behind ..'Pooh', he whispered
'Yes, Piglett'
'Nothing', said Piglett taking Pooh's paw. ' I just wanted to be sure of you'.."



Our family is a little odd sometimes (go figure)
and our sense of humor
might not always be totally understood by some
but we get through things by laughter
and simpleness
one night after visiting mom, and driving to my brothers in Calgary where we were staying
Jackee turns to my dad and says
"now dad, don't go having a heart attack or anything tonight
cause that would really just complicate things"
I thought I was going to die laughing.


but, the good news is
Mom's surgery went well
it will still be many weeks of recovery at home
till she feels whole
ready to meet the roads ahead of her
me and my siblings, we love her

certainly NOT ready to "let go"
I told her, please pinky swear with me you won't die in the winter
and certainly NOT this year



bruised but NOT broken



........so you plant your own garden.......
and decorate your own soul
instead of waiting
for someone to bring you flowers
and you LEARN
that you really can endure
that you really are strong
and you really do have worth

(Vernoica Shoffstall)


also, sweet wishes and prayers go out to my friend Claudie
the one I visited on my magical trip to Ontario
her sweet 92 years old mother is extremely ill
waiting for Gods gentle hand to take her
remember her in your prayers

because
isn't that why we are all HERE
to help each other
when we need each other MOST
love you Claudie

29 comments:

Miley said...

I don't usually like it when people do posts like this but the way you write... When you do these, I always get choked up. Thank you for sharing. I will keep your friend Claudie and her mom in my prayers, as well as your mom (and dad). Hopefully your mom's tests will come back with nothing to worry about.
Also, since I immediately thought of your son when I saw the title, GIANT HUGS to you, his kids and loved ones :)

corrie said...

sniff. you do this well.

love you

Kristina P. said...

You are simply awesome.

The Gathering Place said...

It is hard seeing those we love suffer. I hope your loved ones are on the mend soon!

Becky said...

Such a way with words you have. Much love to you and your family.

Julie Harward said...

I loved what your dad said about being on the green side! Good thing it all went well...we just never know about life and it's twists and turns do we?! Your place is beautiful. :D

Kazzy said...

That picture of your dad out in the hallway seriously made me tear up. So sweet. Best wishes to your mama.

A Daft Scots Lass said...

You made me smile with joy. We always need to share all our feelings and love for our family and friends. They need to know it.

gigi said...

Wendy this whole post is so sweet and wonderful. Praying for you and your family and Claudie too.

Cherie said...

Wendy you are a very very wise and compassionate woman. I am grateful to know you!

I am glad you still have your parents and I hope your continues to do well and heal right up!

God Bless I love you to pieces!!

Barbaloot said...

Beautiful pictures and beautiful thoughts! I hope your mom recovers quickly!

Ann Marie said...

I seriously think your pictures of the country are simply amazing.

You could make a Country Canada calender.. ya know.

I teared through the pictures as well. Especially the one you captured of your Dad in the hall.

Love you..
Prayers continue.

Garden of Egan said...

Beautiful post Wendy.
Thanks for sharing your mom with us. She is beautiful. Your dad sounds like a rock.
So cute!

It may be a little bumpy road for her recovery but I pray that the news will continue to be good.

Also praying for dear Claude and her momma.

Bless you for being such a dear friend and daughter.

tammy said...

This post made me cry.
The quotes about life...
The pictures of your sweet parents...

Man, this life is hard, ain't it??

Pedaling said...

gotta be there for you parents...yes, the fall of life.
very sweet. memories and love and help to one another. Always.

Nezzy said...

Sweetie, know my prayers are with your beautiful Mama and your sweet friend.

Your 'fallish' pictures are just breathtakingly beautiful!

God bless and have a peaceful day!!! :o)

"Alone again.... naturally!" said...

The photos are gorgeous!
I am going to have to remember what Piglet said to Pooh...so sweet!
May your Ma and Pa have many more years of health and happiness ahead of them!

June said...

Hey girlfriend, That first photo shows that special light that only comes to us in the Fall. I love it!!!
I will pray for your mom to recover from her surgery. I hope she does well and will have many more Falls in her life as well.
sending hugs...

Dixie Mom said...

Beautiful post. I think that is why I took advantage of a few days to sneak off and spend with my Mom. We have to do those things before we can't.
I sure hope your Mom has a speedy recovery. Hold on...winter is coming.

Teachinfourth said...

Posts like this are still hard for me to read...here's to long roads.

" Hit It......." said...

You always make me cry. Send my thoughts of love onto Claudie. I have been there. It's not fun.

I am sorry the circumstances sucked but I am glad your cute family was together. Your mom will be fine. Positive thinking.

Emma said...

Love you mom....
I want that picture of your road must in large and frame!

C'est moi Claudette said...

Ok you have to stop that. I haven't been sitting at my computer for 24 hrs. and I open your blog. It's like you were speaking to be, to my heart.
I wish my mom looked as good as yours right now Wendy.
I left you a phone message. It's a little teary eyed, but I had to call and say hi. I feel your love.
Now I was NOT expecting my pic sitting there. I have a funny look on my face. We were waiting for Sister Lolotte weren't we. How ironic. I just left her a voice message also. I know all the sisters are praying for my mom.
I hope with all my ♥ that her results come back with flying colours.
You write so beautifully.
I love you too, BIG TIME BGF.
xoxoxoxoxoxoxo

Melinda said...

Love the pictures Wendy, and I get what you mean about people not always understanding your sense of humor, but getting through things by laughing. Sometimes it really is the best medicine! My heart got all tight looking at the bruises on your mom's arms, that makes me so sad! I hope she's feeling much, MUCH better even now. I'm so glad I know you! <3 Hugs!

Castles Crowns and Cottages said...

Oh my precious Wendy,

I am here, after a long day at work, but this is where I LOVE TO BE ....with all of YOU who are my sisters. Thank you for your kind words....we make something out of nothing when we can, and when things seem bad, all we have is each other...I am so touched to see you SWEET DADDY at 82!!!! OOOOOOOOOO I LOVE YOUR HORSIE! I WANT A HORSE DARN IT! teeeheee....and your beautiful land, MY GOODNESS how fortunate you are. We are bound together, all of us, in love. Far are the miles, but the support is there and I must go visit Claudie to just let her know I love her so.

BIG HUGS TO YOU SWEET WENDY and to your momma. LOVE TO YOU, Anita

jeanne said...

Hello Wendy, Please forgive me for not commenting more. We have been on the road for 10 days and just arrived home last night.

Your post is really beautiful. Your property is an awesome place to live. I love the way you share with the written word. I love your photos of the people you love. Family is where we come alive as we realize that life is fragile and what we make of the time we spend with them that is so precious.

I am happy to know your mom came through the surgery and pray the results of the tests are all good.

I am so sad for Claudie and what she and her family are going through. I have been in her shoes and yours. This is the saddest part of growing old.

I love you and think of the wonderful times we shared this summer so often. Our lives will always be entwined from now on.

xoxoxo, Jeanne

koralee said...

Thank you for visiting me the other day..wow...I am so relating to this post..my dad just turned 82...things seem to change fast! Thank you for sharing. xoxoxoxo

Melanie Jacobson said...

Seriously, I love you.

~CC Catherine said...

Hey Honey, I'm so glad your Mom came through this trial with flying colors. Our Mom's are close to the same age I think. My Mom turns 79 in December. It seems impossible that she's 79. Aren't we still teenagers? Sometimes it feels like that when I'm around my Mom...

Love you friend,
~CC